“Where are you going to college?”
“Which school did you pick?”
“What is your major?”
I’ve noticed that a lot of people tend to assume that everyone is going to college. When we talk to someone age 16-22, we automatically start asking the above questions (me included). Wouldn’t it be nicer to ask “What are your plans after high school?” or for the older youth “Are you working or in school?"
We have great technical schools in our area. This is a great option for a lot of youth and should be encouraged. I often have the impression that it is looked down upon, as if the kids that choose to go there are not considered as bright as the kids that go to college. There are so many options at tech schools for a lot of great careers. Plus, a kid finishes their programs ready to work and with a lot less debt than college. In addition, a lot of the high schools offer the A+ program. If a student completes this program, they receive two years of community college or technical school free.
Some youth want to go right into the workforce. Maybe they need a break from school or maybe they want to learn a trade/obtain an apprenticeship. Forcing (or strongly encouraging) someone to go to college just because it seems like that it is what they “should” be doing, usually results in poor outcomes. There are numerous places that you can start out at with a high school diploma and work your way up. Sometimes they even pay for classes (if needed) along the way.
Of course, college is a great choice for a lot of people. It just doesn’t have to be the only choice.
Stefanie F. Pisarkiewicz, LPC
Experience and information from a counselor and mother- sharing her two cents on children and teens.